How having a messy room can cause you to develop depression and anxiety - and tips on how to clean it up and stay organised
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A cluttered home can cause anxiety and depression, but there are strategies to declutter. Our surroundings have a bigger influence on our mental health than we think. Imagine the difference between living in a messy, disorganised space and an orderly, well-organised one. The first is likely to make you feel overwhelmed, frustrated and anxious, and the second, calm, safe and in control.
There’s a reason why being in cluttered spaces stresses us out. As amazing as it is, the human brain can only take in and process so much information from the external environment. With so many sights, sounds, smells and sensations competing for our attention, it can be a challenge for the brain to process everything at once.
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But how is clutter linked to depression? Dr Esslin Terrighena, a psychologist at Mind Balance in Central, says that clutter can make us feel frustrated by the way it invades our home, which, for many of us, is our safe space. However, we also do not know where to start with getting rid of the clutter, so we feel helpless and overwhelmed.
If nothing gets done the clutter builds up, which increases the frustration. In addition, we may feel guilty for accumulating so many items, irritated when we cannot find what we need and waste time searching, trapped as the clutter adds up, stifled as we cannot find inspiration, and embarrassed when friends see the mess.
“On top of this,” she continues, “our brains are trying to juggle all the stimuli in our environment, making it difficult for us to rest. Having many items around us can enhance our distress by reminding us of all the things we still have not accomplished – not just decluttering itself, but also reading all those books we bought,” etc.
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Terrighena adds that the discomfort caused overwhelming the brain can trickt it into thinking there is some sort of danger in our surroundings, triggering our anxiety. As a result, we may engage in negative self-talk, telling ourselves that we are incapable of decluttering our space. We may also find it harder to concentrate and remember things.
The science backs this up. A study published in 2010 in the journal Psychiatry Researchconfirmed a strong link between clutter and depression, more so than with other disorders. David Tolin, a psychologist who specialises in hoarding and who conducted the study, noted that hoarding participants reported higher levels of depression than control participants and participants with obsessive-compulsive disorder.
A later study, done by UCLA’s Centre of Everyday Lives and Families (CELF), revealed that women had elevated levels of the stress hormone, cortisol, when surrounded by too many physical objects in their home; cortisol is associated with depressive and anxious symptoms The study also found that men were not as emotionally bothered by mess and clutter, which created even more stress in the relationship.
The irony about clutter is that it also makes us feel safe and secure. This is why we find it hard to part with objects that are meaningful to us, or items that have been in our possession for a while we feel we must hold on to, ‘just in case’.
We're getting anxious just looking at a picture of the mess. Photo: Shutterstock
“Despite the negative effects on our well-being, we may find ourselves clinging to the clutter as our new safety blanket, and in the worst-case, sliding deeper and deeper into a cycle of clutter and depression,” says Terrighena. To try to lessen the anxiety and depression, we may even resort to buying more items, which only increases the clutter.
Terrighena believes that clutter is often a sign of underlying emotional issues that have yet to be dealt with. After all, there are many reasons why we hang on to things – for example, they remind us of happier times; they may alleviate guilt, like religious paraphernalia; or they resemble someone we would like to be, which sees us holding on to art materials that we never use.
“Our brains can adapt to continuous, unchanging input over time – for instance, when we have piles of paperwork stacked up all around us for weeks our brains eventually will find these stacks less processing-worthy,” Terrighena points out. “However, as our relationship to clutter is often emotional, these items may remain salient for us, keeping them active and reducing the likelihood of adaptation.”
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Of course, all this doesn’t mean you have to toss out everything you own to be happy. The trick to decluttering is knowing what to keep and throw, and organising the items you do end up keeping.
Professional organiser Sharon Lam, founder of Home Therapy Hong Kong, has some excellent tips for decluttering. She suggests sorting through clothes, books and paper first, followed by items that have sentimental value. Only keep the ones that make you happy and that align with your current lifestyle.
“Fold and store clothes vertically,” she advises. “This not only saves space but makes it easier to find what you’re looking for. Store accessories in drawers with dividers, and only hang up coats, suits and formal wear."
"As for photos and documents, digitise them by scanning or taking photographs of them. Only keep important documents like your birth certificate – and store these in a single folder and label them. In the kitchen, get rid of expired and duplicated items. Clear the counter and group the same categories of items into drawers or containers.”
With space being so tight in Hong Kong, it’s also important to get the right furniture. Caroline Basham, founder and director of Caroline B Personal Management says that sometimes, buying a bed with storage below, or installing a 50cm deep raised floor may be all you need to organise what you own.
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Terrighena recommends clearing one room at a time and exploring all the reasons for holding on to certain things. She also suggests making the process fun and rewarding yourself as you get rid of items. When you’re done decluttering, you’re sure to notice the difference.
“Decluttering can be empowering,” she says. “Parting with long-stored items may be an emotional process, but forming a new space in which to develop ourselves can boost self-esteem, creativity, and well-being."
"We may feel more organised and proud of ourselves. We may become more effective and productive as we are not distracted by clutter. We may become more calm and balanced as we can maintain our focus on one thing at a time. We may experience personal growth and development as the removed objects give us space to unfold. And together with exploring ourselves and letting go of physical clutter, we may be able to let go of deep-rooted challenges that have been causing us distress or contributing to dysfunctional behavioural patterns. This can have long-lasting positive effects on all areas of our lives.”